What if heartbreak was your best healer?
What if you took some time to leap into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that annihilated you, it really helped create you?
These are tough questions to ask yourself. However, they really are stunningly rewarding. Many have had their hearts damaged in one way or another and honestly there isn't any worse feeling in the world. You're feeling totally awful for what seems to be forever and the deep sensations of loss never seem to go away. As long as we keep playing on the field of life, we will suffer the inevitable fact that our hearts will break now and then.
But what if, when heartbreak comes to us, we allow it to show us where we truly have to do deep interpersonal work? How can we take the discomfort of loss and be well placed to create something gorgeous with it?
I'm not suggesting that we should try to ascend above our pain, but rather as an alternative try to take our own agony and birth something positive and beautiful out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet at the same time one that would make an awesome difference when we are faced with deep difficulty.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take every bit of that agony within and turn it into something else. Try writing, painting, speaking, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what's inside you instead of letting it eat you day by day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it. You never know what may happen.
What if you took some time to leap into that question? What if, rather than heartbreak being the thing that annihilated you, it really helped create you?
These are tough questions to ask yourself. However, they really are stunningly rewarding. Many have had their hearts damaged in one way or another and honestly there isn't any worse feeling in the world. You're feeling totally awful for what seems to be forever and the deep sensations of loss never seem to go away. As long as we keep playing on the field of life, we will suffer the inevitable fact that our hearts will break now and then.
But what if, when heartbreak comes to us, we allow it to show us where we truly have to do deep interpersonal work? How can we take the discomfort of loss and be well placed to create something gorgeous with it?
I'm not suggesting that we should try to ascend above our pain, but rather as an alternative try to take our own agony and birth something positive and beautiful out of it. It's a challenge not for the faint of heart, and yet at the same time one that would make an awesome difference when we are faced with deep difficulty.
So the next time your heart breaks, see if you can take every bit of that agony within and turn it into something else. Try writing, painting, speaking, or anything else that feels right to you. Express what's inside you instead of letting it eat you day by day. There's something beautiful about going through a time of great change and pain. Yes, it really does hurt, but maybe it is about your heart breaking open instead of breaking to pieces?
Just try it. You never know what may happen.
About the Author:
Evan Sanders is the author of The Words Of Encouragement, a website dedicated to bringing the best quotes, motivational content on the web, and blogs all to one place. Going through a rough patch or just had your heart broken? Yeah, that can be pretty darn tough. I put together some heartbreak quotes to help you out in this situation.
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