Mourning Time With Rabbi Funeral

By Laura Long


It is so hard losing a loved one and this is especially so if not lived a full life but it was cut short. A Rabbi funeral in Jewish cases is what is called for and knowing a bit about the ceremony itself can leave one relaxed that all is taken care of. There is a set procedure that makes up the funeral and some of these points are noted here.

During this time, the bereaved are allowed to mourn the loss of a loved one and then are encouraged to get on with life because life is there to be lived. Sometimes this is difficult and one finds oneself mourning the loss years and months after the case. This is natural however, practices dictate that one only say for instance the Kaddish prayer for eleven months only.

Some also go so far as to cover mirrors and paintings hanging on the walls of the home as a sign of mourning. Some wear only socks around the house. These are traditions that are not practiced by all but for some, they have been handed down for the passed hundred of years.

Then there is the burial itself where there is a set procedure as to how it is carried out. The dead are not buried in fancy and expensive coffins but rather in a pine casket that is modest. Before the burial takes place the body is washed in what is known as Tahara or cleansing after which it is laid to rest in the coffin sometimes wrapped in a prayer shawl especially for men.

The coffin is not fanciful and expensive but is modestly made out of pine. It is customary to put soil from the Holy Land into the casket with the body. The body itself, should it be male, is wrapped in a prayer shawl or is put in white linen that is sewed around the body in order to enclose it completely.

There are other customs that are kept and some of these include eating hard boiled eggs and bagels. The bagel is round signifying the totality of life whilst the egg is a sign of the soul continuing its journey from this world to the next. The body is but a shell and a vehicle for the soul in this world and it should be understood that its journey continues far into the next world.

Once prayers have been said mourners will say a prayer for the dead known as Kaddish. This prayer will be said for the next eleven months whilst mourners attend Synagogue for morning, noon and evening prayers. It is in respect of the dead so that their soul may be elevated and granted peace in the next world.

The Rabbi is there to enlighten and educate. It is best to be guided by him. Fulfilling the laws and dictates is in fact the healthy way to go about things.




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